{"id":99131,"date":"2023-09-22T17:50:19","date_gmt":"2023-09-22T17:50:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebritycovernews.com\/?p=99131"},"modified":"2023-09-22T17:50:19","modified_gmt":"2023-09-22T17:50:19","slug":"my-husband-is-trying-to-sabotage-my-relationship-with-my-best-friend-he-wants-me-all-to-himself-the-sun","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebritycovernews.com\/lifestyle\/my-husband-is-trying-to-sabotage-my-relationship-with-my-best-friend-he-wants-me-all-to-himself-the-sun\/","title":{"rendered":"My husband is trying to sabotage my relationship with my best friend – he wants me all to himself | The Sun"},"content":{"rendered":"
DEAR DEIDRE: MY husband hates my best friend and is trying to sabotage our relationship.<\/p>\n
I love them both and I\u2019m not prepared to choose between them.<\/p>\n
I\u2019m 28 and so is my best mate. My husband is 30.<\/p>\n
My best friend and I have known each other for 20 years. <\/p>\n
We always swore we\u2019d never let a man come between us.<\/p>\n
When I met my husband, three years ago, I made it clear how important she was to me. <\/p>\n
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He seemed to accept it, but over the last year has become increasingly resentful.<\/p>\n
She has no idea how he feels about her. He\u2019s always nice<\/span> to her face, then makes sarcastic remarks behind her back.<\/p>\n Recently, he\u2019s even started saying things to try to make me dislike her.<\/p>\n He hates the fact that I go out with her often and spend lots of time chatting to her. He says I\u2019m his best friend, and he should be mine.<\/p>\n I feel like he\u2019s trying to create distance between us because he wants me all to himself.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n DEIDRE SAYS:\u00a0<\/strong><\/span>Some men struggle to value the close friendships that many women share.<\/p>\n Your husband is clearly jealous of your relationship with your best mate. He also sounds rather controlling.<\/p>\n He needs to understand that you are your own person outside of your marriage<\/span> and can choose who you spend time with.<\/p>\n Perhaps he also needs to develop hobbies and friendships of his own.<\/p>\n Tell him how you feel. My support pack, Standing Up For Yourself, should help you do this without making him too defensive.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\nMORE FROM DEAR DEIDRE<\/span><\/h2>\n
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