{"id":101282,"date":"2023-11-26T09:05:21","date_gmt":"2023-11-26T09:05:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebritycovernews.com\/?p=101282"},"modified":"2023-11-26T09:05:21","modified_gmt":"2023-11-26T09:05:21","slug":"daughter-wont-speak-to-me-after-i-banned-her-from-seeing-boyfriend-the-sun","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebritycovernews.com\/lifestyle\/daughter-wont-speak-to-me-after-i-banned-her-from-seeing-boyfriend-the-sun\/","title":{"rendered":"Daughter won't speak to me after I banned her from seeing boyfriend | The Sun"},"content":{"rendered":"
DEAR DEIDRE: SINCE I banned my 15-year-old daughter from seeing her boyfriend, 17, she has stopped talking to me.<\/p>\n
I never liked him but the moment I discovered they were having sex, I knew I had to put my foot down.<\/p>\n
They had been at it in her bedroom after school as I don\u2019t get home from work until 6pm.<\/p>\n
I\u2019m a single mum and had my daughter when I was only 19. <\/p>\n
It was unbelievably tough and I\u2019m desperate to protect her from ruining her life.<\/p>\n
But she says I\u2019m a hypocrite. After seeing messages between them, it was clear they had started sleeping together a couple of months ago.<\/p>\n
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I confiscated her phone for a week which sent her over the edge. <\/p>\n
She is still barging past me in the house and refuses to even look at me.<\/p>\n
Even though I\u2019ve told her, she can\u2019t date him any more, I\u2019m sure they are contacting each other again.<\/p>\n
What can I do? All I want to do is keep her safe but I can\u2019t get through to her at all.<\/p>\n
DEIDRE SAYS:\u00a0<\/strong><\/span>I understand your priority is keeping your daughter safe but unfortunately you\u2019ve pushed her away.<\/p>\n It sounds likely they may still be in a relationship.<\/p>\n It is really concerning this older teen, someone who will have a lot more life experience than her at this stage, is having sex with her.<\/p>\n But you will be far more effective if she feels she can talk to you.<\/p>\n So take a deep breath, explain you only ever want to keep her from harm.<\/p>\n Tell her that you panicked and know you can\u2019t realistically stop their relationship. <\/p>\n Also, in the eyes of the law, her boyfriend is having sex with a minor and could be prosecuted.<\/p>\n On a practical note, as upsetting as it is, it would be wise to discuss contraception with her.<\/p>\n If she isn\u2019t well informed the outcome could be even worse. <\/p>\n Talk about how sometimes older people can take advantage of younger partners, controlling and manipulating them.<\/p>\n You could watch a show like C4 documentary, The Kidnap Of Angel Lynn, to help her understand and start to recognise any unhealthy patterns.<\/p>\n My support pack Underage Sex will help you both.<\/p>\n<\/picture>DEAR DEIDRE <\/span><\/p>\n
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