{"id":100010,"date":"2023-10-18T12:32:35","date_gmt":"2023-10-18T12:32:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/celebritycovernews.com\/?p=100010"},"modified":"2023-10-18T12:32:35","modified_gmt":"2023-10-18T12:32:35","slug":"my-nanny-is-threatening-to-quit-if-i-dont-fly-her-first-class","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/celebritycovernews.com\/lifestyle\/my-nanny-is-threatening-to-quit-if-i-dont-fly-her-first-class\/","title":{"rendered":"My nanny is threatening to QUIT if I don&apos;t fly her first class"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1>DEAR JANE: I refuse to fly our son&#8217;s nanny in first class on family vacations &#8211; she says I&#8217;m being disrespectful and is threatening to QUIT<\/h1>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>In her new agony aunt column, best-selling author Jane Green gives advice to a desperate parent who has been left horrified by his nanny&#8217;s behavior\u00a0<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Do you have a question for Jane? Email dearjane@mailonline.com or ask it below<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>READ MORE:\u00a0My mom lets my dad have sex with OTHER women<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span>Dear Jane,<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>For the past two years, my wife and I have employed a live-in nanny who helps us care for our young son, while taking care of a few chores around the house.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>She has formed a wonderful bond with our three-year-old \u2013 so much so that we decided this year to invite her on our family vacations with us.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>The deal was that we\u2019d pay for her travel, her hotel room etc. and she could enjoy free time during the day while looking after our son in the evenings so my wife and I can enjoy some time alone.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>We had three trips booked when we made this arrangement with her and she happily committed to all three.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>However when we travelled to Costa Rica last month, she got incredibly upset to discover that we had not booked her a first class seat.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/10\/18\/11\/76657619-12640231-Dear_Jane_our_son_s_nanny_is_furious_that_we_didn_t_book_her_a_f-a-1_1697626342785.jpg\" height=\"570\" width=\"634\"><\/p>\n<p>Dear Jane, our son&#8217;s nanny is furious that we didn&#8217;t book her a first class seat on our last family vacation &#8211; and now she&#8217;s threatening to quit over it\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><span>My wife and I were in first class with our son, and we booked our nanny a seat in Delta Comfort+. Apparently this was not to her standards.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>As soon as we landed she asked to speak with me \u2013 and said that she felt incredibly uncomfortable with being treated in such a disrespectful manner. That our decision to fly first class while leaving her in another section made clear how little with think of her.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>She said that she could not commit to joining us on any other trips if that was our plan moving forward, and went as far as to suggest that she would rethink her working situation altogether if we didn\u2019t agree to fly her first class.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i.dailymail.co.uk\/1s\/2023\/10\/18\/11\/69851423-12640231-International_best_selling_author_Jane_Green_offers_sage_advice_-a-2_1697626343381.jpg\" height=\"487\" width=\"306\"><\/p>\n<p>International best-selling author Jane Green offers sage advice on DailyMail.com readers&#8217; most burning issues in her Dear Jane agony aunt column<\/p>\n<p><span>Then she pretty much refused to speak with us about anything other than the baby.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>I mean, what the heck?! Not trying to sound rude \u2013 or disrespectful \u2013 but we pay her a really good salary, we look after her incredibly well, and given that she\u2019s getting several free vacations, I don\u2019t think it\u2019s unreasonable of us to book her in Comfort+.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>We didn\u2019t even book her in coach!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>She and my son are so close, and she really is wonderful with him, so I can\u2019t stand the thought of losing her, but it feels a bit like we\u2019re being emotionally blackmailed by her.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>Any thoughts about what we can do to resolve this without sacrificing all our boundaries!?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>From,<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>Desperate Dad<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Dear Desperate Dad,<\/p>\n<p>I am thanking my lucky stars that these days are very firmly behind me, but what I remember, with every au-pair or nanny that we had, was that they were the best, our children adored them, and the prospect of them leaving was terrifying for they were irreplaceable.<\/p>\n<p>And yet, every time someone left, we found another, who was sometimes better, sometimes worse, usually entirely different, and almost always equally beloved by us and our children.<\/p>\n<p>Which is to say, no-one is irreplaceable, however wonderful she may be with your son.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Many employers think the nanny should be eternally grateful to have the opportunity to travel to exotic places, even when they are pretty much on duty almost 24 hours a day and are sharing a room with the children.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>But look out the window! You\u2019re in the Maldives! You may not have any time to yourself but it\u2019s hot! Lucky you!<\/p>\n<p>This is not what you are describing, given her free time during the day and a few night\u2019s babysitting, and I would say that the entitlement she has shown is a firm deal-breaker.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Start looking for a new nanny, because this kind of cheek has no place in your home.<\/p>\n<p>Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/femail\/article-12640231\/DEAR-JANE-nanny-class-vacations-disrespectful-QUIT.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Read Full Article<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>DEAR JANE: I refuse to fly our son&#8217;s nanny in first class on family vacations &#8211; she says I&#8217;m being<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":100009,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.8 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>My nanny is threatening to QUIT if I don&amp;apos;t fly her first class - Celebrity Cover News<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/celebritycovernews.com\/lifestyle\/my-nanny-is-threatening-to-quit-if-i-dont-fly-her-first-class\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"My nanny is threatening to QUIT if I don&amp;apos;t fly her first class - Celebrity Cover News\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"DEAR JANE: I refuse to fly our son&#8217;s nanny in first class on family vacations &#8211; 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