My girlfriend doesn’t want to have sex & it’s badly hit my self-esteem

DEAR DEIDRE: ALL the intimacy with my girlfriend has gone. She doesn’t want to kiss, cuddle or have sex since we moved in together three months ago. It’s badly hit my self-esteem.

I’m a woman of 28 and my girlfriend is 26. We’ve been together for three years. Whatever I do, she refuses – or it’s without any passion.


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She has got lazy with the effort she puts into our relationship.

She does nothing around the house and I do everything.

I feel really unappreciated.

I find myself wanting to seek what is missing elsewhere but I also want to stay with her.

DEIDRE SAYS: Talk to her about what changed for her when you moved.

It sounds as if she is behaving like a teenager at home, so maybe she is seeing you like a parent figure.

Tell her you need a reset in and out of bed.

Say you both need to be showing love and appreciation or else your relationship will die away.

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