My boyfriend found photos of me pregnant and he’s furious – he had no idea I had a baby

A WOMAN had some explaining to do when her boyfriend found pictures of her pregnant – but he had no idea she'd had a baby.

She took to Reddit to reveal the situation, adding that she'd been a surrogate for her sister after she suffered several miscarriages.

She had a baby girl, who is now seven years old, and has no maternal feelings towards her niece – as she considers herself just "the handy oven for that bun".

Now in a happy relationship of nearly three years, she never thought to tell her boyfriend about the situation, so he was left shocked when he saw old family pictures of her, in which she was pregnant.

He was even more surprised considering she'd told him she didn't want to have any children – a decision he eventually agreed with after some discussion.

After coming across the pictures at her dad's birthday party, the boyfriend assumed she'd had a child she'd given up for adoption.

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And even when she explained the situation, he wasn't happy – and insisted she should have told him.

"When we left he told me I should have told him and said how it wasn't fair that I'd been willing to give my sister a child but wouldn't even consider having one with him," she wrote.

"I got upset as there is a big difference between carrying a child and raising a child and told him as much.

"I told him I was sorry for not telling him but I honestly hadn't felt it was his business as it had been years before we got together.

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"I then reminded him how he had been the one to say he could live without children as I'd warned him long ago."

Concluding, she added: "He is still upset with me, I honestly didn't think I did anything wrong here."

Responses to the post on Reddit were mixed, but people agreed that the man clearly has some unresolved feelings about not becoming a father.

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"He reacted on a big scale, and that is understandable, but he is basically saying 'you had a baby for them, you should be willing to have one for me, too!' which is not cute," one person wrote.

"You both made the wishful mistake of thinking that he could just be okay without kids when you both know he wants them. He is not okay with it, and if you don't have kids, he will resent you.

"If you do choose to have kids for him, you will resent him and possibly also the kids. Please think this through carefully."

"Something I don't think should get lost in the weeds is that he clearly still wants children and this is a huge compatibility issue," someone else added.

"He is either lying to you or lying to himself and one of these will come to light 'too late' and it will be an even bigger issue then.

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"And I love that you carried a child for your sister, I would do anything for mine as well and I wouldn't tell anyone I birthed their child that wasn't in my life at the time.

"It sort of puts an asterisk on the child that doesn't need to be there if no one wants it to be."

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